Sacred Love – Be the Love You Dream

Sacred Love – Be the Love You Dream

Starting today, treat everyone you meet, friends or foes, loved ones or strangers, as if they need your approval. Extend to each person, no matter how trivial the contact, all the care, kindness, understanding, and love you can muster, and do so without thinking of any rewards. Your life will never be the same again. There is no greater existence than the life that gives more than it takes.

If you are in love, it will show. In your eyes, your face, the way you walk, the way you sit, everything will show, because you are not the same person. They have touched you. The desiring mind is not there. And here is a big problem.

If you are only happy when you find a lover to fall in love with, your life and your relationship will be a disaster. Before falling in love there wasn’t the same experience, so you were basically walking incomplete without a lover. It’s like that song “You are nobody until someone loves you”, actually, that headspace causes all of our suffering.

It should say: “You are someone, if someone loves you.” If you are a person before falling in love, and then you are someone else after falling in love, there is a dependency on this great experience, and that is the beginning of relationship problems. This is the first or second level of love, where there is great confusion between love, need, rescue, and antidepressant.

There are four substitutes for love. They are sex, food, religion, and material greed. Many people cannot tell the difference between love and substitutes. They fall in love because of good sex or because their lover has a lot of wealth. This is because the same chemicals that are produced in the body when there is love are produced when we experience hope. So chemically, love hormones are secreted when we experience other forms of happiness, such as falling in love, but hope is also a powerful aphrodisiac.

This is the motive that attracts people on the first, second, and third levels of love. Your hormones are racing; They cannot tell if it is love, infatuation, or hope. Your body chemistry changes and you feel every “In LOVE” experience. But they are not in love. They are in solution. The solution to a problem is a substitute for love. This substitution is unsustainable. Attachment to your lover is onlyfans free trialĀ 
highly emotional, highly conditional, it is the relationship made in hell, because there is a greater hope that love is there, but it is not really love and it fails. They just weren’t ready to be in love, because they weren’t in love before they met their lover.

To be truly in love, we must learn to be in love without a partner, as well as with a partner. We must “fall in love” without someone to love. It is a loving attitude towards life, towards trees and children and sunsets alone; in love with a movie, and in love with our parents. To be ready to fall in love, we must be in love with our past and our future.

When you are really in love with something in your life, you are ambivalent about it. In other words, it doesn’t attract or repel you. You are not afraid of it nor do you avoid it. That person or circumstance is part of you. They are you. You are them, they are the mirror and there you can see yourself. In this love, there is gratitude. You can thank someone, you are no longer trying to do the opposite; you are them. You can be in love with anyone if you wish. Of course, that doesn’t mean you need a relationship with them. Love is a way of being in the world without reacting to it.